Your Sex Questions, Answered (Toys, Threesomes, and Trying New Things)

I only chose the questions that I feel comfortable answering.

  1. Q: Any recommendations on sex toys? A: Finally, some questions I can answer. Haha, I recommend the Domi for ladies use. I would not recommend a partner use this on you, until you’ve played with it yourself first. I also recommend the Lush lovense toy because it can be operated from far away, which makes it a really fun toy for partners. For men, I recommend a cock ring (you can buy a multi-pack with different sizes.) This helps prolong the orgasm for the man and helps keeps his junk hard.
  2. Q: I have been having trouble cumming lately, any tips or maneuvers you recommend that help you get the job done? A: I recommend taking a big step back and taking the pressure off yourself to cum. A watched pot never boils, and there is nothing less sexy than feeling pressured to orgasm. I recommend, therefore, rewinding and re-visiting sensual pleasures, rather than sexual. For example, get a professional massage and feel the sensations in each part of your body, not just the genitals. This can help ease your mind and relax you, and you may be surprised at how soon peace can lead to passion.
  3. Q: Any advice or experience for a first time cam girl/OF creator? Im nervous about playing with myself for other people but the thought also excites me. A: My advice is to follow your excitement, and keep close tabs on how you are feeling as you do the projects. If you start feeling bad or pressured or unsafe, shut it down and take a break. Remember, as a content creator, you are the architect, so focus on creating something that makes you feel happy and safe. The rest will follow in time.
  4. Q: How would you respond if a couple approached you to be their third? A: I would respond favorably if the couple were both invested in the threesome. There is nothing worse than a girlfriend or boyfriend who is in a threesome against their will, or just to please their partner.
  5. Q: What’s something sexual you hesitated to try but ended up loving? A: Booty stuff! I hesitated to try but thanks to a patient and very caring lover, I am now on board the bandwagon.

I’m happy to read and respond to your questions, particularly if they are respectful and genuine. 🙂 Ask away in the comments!

Pearl

By justpearlythings

I am a writer, a lover, and a believer in the good things in life. I write about mental health and wellness, along with book reviews and fashion opinions. My blog caters to thoughtful, growth-minded women and men, and offers insights and personal challenges that provide a space for relevant, meaningful connection. The World Wide Web is vast, it contains multitudes, and so do we as people. I believe that through self-awareness and honesty, we create a more loving planet for everyone. Feel free to follow this page and share it with friends and family. Love, Pearl

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